
It seems like with every healthy habit, there comes a period of time when we're doing really good with it! Look at us go! And then something in our life situation changes- we get busier, we have to deal with something- there's a shift of some sort. And then suddenly, poof! Our new habit vanishes along with it.
That doesn't just happen to me, does it?
One healthy habit I have found myself falling from is meditation.
I was doing really great at it, meditating almost everyday for over a year. When I was feeling at my most overwhelmed and burdened, meditation is what I turned to help draw me out of that. And guess what? It worked!
It worked so well that the triggers that led me to feeling like I needed meditation in my life, the things that led me to keep up the habit everyday, the stress, sadness and overwhelm- well, they all went away!
The better I started to feel, the less I felt like I needed to meditate, because I already felt calm and happy and present.
And somewhere along the line, I stopped meditating at all. Without even really noticing that it was a habit I had given up- it was completely unconscious.
And now that I realize it's been a couple months since I was meditating regularly, I'm also noticing that I'm getting more easily frustrated, self-doubt is creeping in a lot more, I'm falling back into stressful patterns that I had before and I see- it's because I stopped!
So I now realize, that meditation is a life-long habit I want to cultivate and that just because it seems to be working at the time, doesn't mean I get to stop! That's the exact time when I need to keep going and keep at it.
So, I'm hopping back on the habit wagon! Here's how:
First things first: I'm going to start today. Now is a better time than any to jump back on that wagon. No use wasting time thinking about myself as a failure or wondering why I can't stick to things- I'm just gonna take action and get re-started. TODAY.
2nd step: I need to re-connect with my WHY. My first motivation was very apparent- I felt like crap, stressed out, depressed, and meditation made me feel instantly better.
Now that I'm not in such an overwhelmed state, I need to find a new motivation to keep on going. I know that I want to keep building up that place of presence and calm within me so that it's there when I need it- even if things aren't immediately stressful, I need to feel like I can handle the hard stuff when it comes up, and meditating regularly gives me the strength and clarity to do that. That's a pretty motivating why!
3rd step: I'm going to bring in some community. I have always meditated alone, which makes it really easy to stop if I want. I plan on continuing the solo practice, but also want to reach out to some community activities- guided meditations and groups around town (it's Portland so there's lots of stuff like that :)
To have a chance to talk to and get to know others who are interested in this could really help my motivation, I think. Having some sort of social support around your habit can help you feel more accountable and stick to it!
So those are my steps for hopping back on the habit wagon! I'm going to meditate right after this, and get started!
Is there a healthy habit you've let lax recently? How are you going to hop back on the wagon and get groovin' on it again?
{This is part of our Truthy Tuesday series over at The Maven Circle, where we openly share our struggles and thoughts around a different topic each week. Join us in getting truthy on your own blog, and we'll link up and spread the love!}